Wednesday, April 27, 2016
Sunday, April 24, 2016
Seeing Shakespeare with Emma Tess or Falstaff proclaims honor!
4/24/16 Miles
Davis…Milesones
Last Thursday,
I drove into Brooklyn to see the Part II of Shakespeare’s play Henry IV. I am not about to write a critique of the
play since I did not know a breath of either Part I or II, but I was there with
Emma Tess since my beautiful brown haired daughter loves Shakespeare. The performances were by the Royal
Shakespeare Company at BAM. Sir John Falstaff
was played by Antony Sher who was spectacular as the corpulent and cowardly character. I have seen one Shakespeare play previously when
Al Pacino played Shylock in The Merchant of Venice. Lincoln was influenced by Shakespeare. One of three books on his desk while in the White
House was the works of William Shakespeare.
In the darkened theatre on both nights I let the words ease into my ears
and at times had to scrutinize the passage or sentence to make sense. There were moments when I was lost and scrambling
like slipping on slick patch of ice, but soon enough I was stable after being brought
back to where I had to be. Honestly, the
first part of IV Henry was less serious and perhaps I was better able to listen
without as many distractions. Before I
go on, let me share a famous quote from Falstaff regarding honor, “What is honour? a word. What is in that word
honour? what is that honour? air. A trim reckoning! Who hath it? he that died
o' Wednesday. Doth he feel it? no. Doth he hear it? no.” The first night was special for Emma and I,
we took the train from Ronkonkoma and had about an about to kill before the
start of the play. After a few minutes
walking around Brooklyn, we found a burger joint and sat down. The place was crowded. We ate and walked back to the area where BAM
is. Found the theatre and walked in and
up a steep flight of stairs which honestly would be a challenge to a Navy
Seal. Found our seats and settled
in. I was amazed how many people were
coughing and sneezing and burying their wet mucus nostrils into a napkin and
discharging as loudly as possible said contents into their soiled fabric. Taking the train into BAM or the Atlantic
terminal is easy. Transfer at Jamaica
and in a few stops you’re at the Atlantic terminal. Easy.
Getting home is a pain in the ass since the train leaves a little after
23:00. During intermission I asked an
usher how long the second act will be.
She tells me how long, and we look at the time and our watches and make
the correct estimate that we will have enough time to make the train. The play ends and we slowly make our way down
the steep steps. People are clutching the
railing for dear life as Emma and I bounce down each step between the clutchers
and make a break to the exit. We’re
free. We jog down the street, get into
the train terminal and head down to the platform and onto the train with enough
time to spare. We could have walked…The
next night I searched for tickets for Part II and paid more, better seats and
this time I was driving. We had time and
made it to BAM with time to spare, but not enough to get something to eat. I had a chocolate bar and Emma Tess had a
cookie. We found our seats. Second set of orchestra. In other words…in the back. Three elderly ladies sat behind us and one
said she’d need a hearing device. The
usher brought it to her and yet this woman chose to make comments throughout
the first act not realizing or noticing the agitated heads turning, the ssshhhh’s
and other obvious hints to shut up.
During intermission it was addressed very professionally and there was
not a peep. Emma Tess and I drove home
and make it back faster – by an hour and we didn’t have to run…it was a memorable
night and an honest discussion since there have been many changes in Emma’s
life. She regrets some. I hope she heard my message, follow your love
which for Emma Tess is photography…be the best, work hard at it, believe in
yourself.
Thank you for
reading this.
Tuesday, April 12, 2016
Sunday, April 3, 2016
New Love
04/03/16 11:54 Home, listening to
the strong winds blowing through Long Island
Uncle Rocky passed away on Friday
night. It was not a surprise. He was diagnosed with emphysema more than
twenty years ago. The last ten years he
had an oxygen tank to assist his breathing.
He’s been pushed in a wheel chair for the past few years. His quality of life may have been impacted
and yet his strength and easy smile would warm any room. For the past few weeks he was in and out of
the hospital. His body was slowly dying. On Thursday, he was transferred to
hospice. Aunt Barbara, his wife had a
dream on Friday; their granddaughter, who had passed years before at 15 told
Barbara (in the dream) that Pop was going to join her that day. Just before 22:00, he passed, surrounded by
family and much love. Rocco was courageous,
accepting his impending death and as he said, “Not wanting to be a burden on
his family.” He knew he was not going to
get better. The family and Rocco had the
opportunity to say their good-byes and most of the family were prepared to let
him pass. Not that it is easy for anyone
to say good-bye. My father-in-law was
and still is distraught with the idea that his older brother is dead. The thought that we will not see Rocco
presses into our hearts and minds. There
is the funeral arrangements, the wake and the mass. His body will be cremated. Flowers to be ordered, donations to
hospice. I understand the hospice staff
were warm and comforting with the family and let them know what stages were
taking place. After they administered
the morphine he declined rapidly. Friday
night, Ali and I were at the high school where Joe was in a one act play. Ali left during intermission since Joe was
not on the stage in the second play. After
the second play, I dropped him off at the diner where he met friends. I took Bella home and came upstairs to read. Ali sent a text to let us know of the
passing. I picked up Joe at the diner,
his phone had died so he was not aware.
I broke it to him. Bella started sobbing
in the back seat. Joe was crying. We picked Emma up at work and went inside
Target. She was crying and I hugged her. We walked around the aisles aimlessly for a
couple of minutes. A message came over
the loud speaker that the store was closing in five minutes. We met Emma Tess outside and drove home. Inside the car, there were sniffles. Under the stars and night clouds…we thought
of Rocco…Rocco Maniaci may you rest in peace with all those who departed before,
and may you be welcomed by them within a new love.
Thank you for reading this.
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