6/30/14 17:21
Yesterday my wife and I celebrated our 20th
wedding anniversary. The event came at a
time when Emma Tess our second oldest just graduated high school. The graduation and party held our attention
for the past few weeks. Saturday we had
a large rented tent in the back yard.
Family and friends from the neighborhood and schools joined us at the
house in the celebration for Emma Tess.
Two years prior it was Amanda’s graduation. Yet Emma’s was
different. Her class was different; they
were supportive of one another which were the general theme in many of the
speeches. I have to believe it. I watched the class jesters and others participate
in tossing beach balls, tennis balls until they were confiscated by security
who were begging them to give up their toys; the antics were an entertaining
break from the sincere speeches, but how many can honestly state; I didn’t
prepare anything. They didn’t need
anything or so they thought. A ball is
smacked. Young men and woman suddenly
acted their age – you are teenagers (or I assume you are) be young. Have fun.
The stoic faces broke out in smiles - which was a relief. Many of them appeared older, wiser, and I
dare make the bold statement – they were confident. It seemed like nothing was going to stop
them. They took their diplomas, took
their pictures, took off their caps and tossed them in the air and we watched
the caps twist under the faint blue sky.
Some of us snapped pictures and listened to the applause for their children
or grandchildren or their parolees. Emma
Tess graduated high school. The little
girl who’d I wrestle with. Back then she
had a lisp when her front teeth were missing and she’d say, “Give me a sound
beating.” This is the girl, who told us,
she never wanted to grow up. I feel
sorry for her and will ask if she feels the same way, do you regret getting
older? I know she’s excited about Hofstra. Look at it this way, instead of focusing on the
past - passing by - think of the hope which lies in the future. There are so many possibilities. The dreams we heard in the speeches - follow
them; pursue that dream. Be driven by
passion. Love what you are doing since
you may be doing something for forty years. Yikes that’s intimidating and if faced with
the objective, most of us would cower.
Take it one day at a time.
Clinton Kelly, the star celebrity - a graduate from Comsewogue High
School gave the graduating class a speech, what the hell do you refer to the keynote speech as? The keynote speech. He was incredible and entertaining
and kept popping in nuggets of wisdom – this is what said this which I copied
from his Facebook page and it’s perfect; The energy you spend with your head in the past
will never get you closer to the future you dream for yourself.
Thank you for reading this
Thanks for sharing this Mike! Felt like I was there!
ReplyDeleteGo Emma!!!